Fr. Daren has a good chunk of an answer here. Hint: it’s not just them, it’s us too. Here’s part of it:
Too often have we distanced ourselves from their questions, giving them only a cursory answer and backing down when they have disagreed with our reasoning. We have not often given them enough, a thorough, well-reasoned argument. Too often have we shied away from demonstrating the illogical argumentation of the world, which has frequently clouded their own logic.
